Falling in love is actually easier than you would expect.
You do not need to make a plan for it. You only need walk into someone
beautiful…..a good-looking
damsel…. maybe it’s the reflection of light on her hair or the beauty of her
smile that smites you. You actually need no preparation.
It’s true that
we need a little planning to win her over, just as you need a lot of work to keep
love everlasting. Love in a relationship needs grooming to sustain it.
Like a
seed in a garden, you need to water it, mulch the land, add fertilizers and
prune the plant for the best result. So here are some tips to keep things ever
interesting.
Go places together
Ladies love to be shown off. As a man, you need to recognize that. take her out. Fly her like a kite for all to see. Hold hands and kiss in public. She needs to feel your proud show off
Be supportive
One thing I have found all relationships needy of is support. We all want a partner who is both understanding and supportive of us. In a relationship, bring that. Make your partner know that you have their backs no matter what.
It makes them very
happy and trusting. No one will leave you when they believe you are the best
and most supporting partner out there.
Always be supportive and show understanding. Let him/her
know you will always be their number one fan.
Set goals together
Set goals together
A couple that achieves things together stays together. If
you want to give your relationship life, you have to set goals and achieve
them together. You remember the feeling of passing an examination that you did
not need to fail? Finishing up something that meant a lot to you?
As a couple, when you
set goals together, it gives you focus. Something to work together at. You lean
on each other and trust the other. You go back together to plan and work as a
team.
Tell me! How can you go wrong with achieving things
together? Nothing beats that feeling of knowing that no matter what, you have
someone who can help you share your burdens and carry your weight.
Fuel you funnometer
Never let yourself lose what made you fun to be with. Routine and boredom usually sets in after awhile for couples. From been the life of the party, you just might wake up some-other day realizing that you no longer fun. You have exchanged interesting conversation for complaining about the weather.
Continue to plan the weekend retreats that you always had as
a couple, in the beginning. Seduce her in the kitchen, on the weekend midnight
when the baby is sleeping. Kiss under the moonlight and take walks together.
Make up fantasies together, dream big of how to do the impossible things.
The reason your relationship is in danger is because you are
forgetting to make an effort in been interesting. You no longer read up jokes
to share with her. You stopped writing her love-notes that you hide away in the
kitchen cabinet or in pillow cases.
Divide and conquer
Instead of quarreling about chores and who is responsible
for what, just try this new pattern. Whenever work at home compiles, divide it
up and do them together.you didn't always see doing stuff together as bad.
You did dry up the plates while she washed, didn’t you? Are
you not the same gal who made him lie while you tried the pedicure on his toes.
Your partner is your lover. Learn to share things together……….. Even work.
It actually takes the sting off the bickering
Stay focused on the positives
A relationship will always be good if both people in it see
most of what is positive alone. The more you stay on the good, the less
important the negative part of your spouse is.
Actually, no one is perfect, not
even you. If you can keep that in mind, it will do you a lot of good.
After all, she does put up with you while you snore up a
storm in bed, pick your dirty nose and even mess up the toilet seat.
Keep your
focus on her positive sides and appreciate her for it. If you can do that,
your relationship is guaranteed to last longer and still remain most
interesting.
Forgive
Forgiveness is a gift. One that you should give freely to your partner. Loving someone means also that you will be vulnerable to that somebody. Just like nakedness, it unveils you before that person and all flaws hidden under clothes see the light.
In other to love and keep the fire burning, you have to be
willing to easily forgive. Your partner will make mistakes and hurt your feeling
as is normal.
Your ability to forgive and re-embrace them will be what
keeps everything going. In the same manner, you will make mistakes and will be
forgiven.
Never stop loving your spouse. It’s the real secret to
keeping things going. Find ways to please them. A worthy relationship is when
both partners put the other person first.
If you will put him
before you, if you can make her needs more important than yours……… you will
have a worthy and interesting relationship.
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